Yep, my first stop of the day was in Wallaceburg at the Timmie's drive-thru. :0) Really, who is surprised my first stop was for coffee? My plan (it wasn't really much of a plan) was to go visit a couple people, but once I got there I wasn't in the mood for company. On to Plan B (also not much of a plan, but I followed through).
So I drove down the back roads and ended up in Shetland. Not really anything to write home about for most people, but for me, a chunk of my heart is there. I pulled into the church's driveway and around the back. Got out and the first thing I noticed was that all of the flowers looked dead. Great, Jim hasn't kept his promise to keep our son's gravesite neat and tidy. I wasn't mad about it, more like sad. It all looked so neglected, sad and depressing. The fact that my son died is sad and depressing, true, but I take the time to plant flowers, make it nice. Just in case someone goes out there, they will know just by looking for one second that the kid that's buried there is loved and is missed. How hard can it be to go out there once every couple months and pull a weed or two?? Oh well, it just means I'll be going back out there this week to clean it all up and plant something new. One thing seems to have survived from last summer, the miniature white roses. There doesn't appear to be any blooms right now, but its got lots of green. I'll build on that.
When I left Shetland, I headed to my Dad's house. Its not too far away from Shetland. I should have called first, though, he wasn't home. Oh well, worst case scenario is I'll see him on Saturday at the pig roast. :0) I love my Dad, and I'm thrilled beyond belief that this year he doesn't have to "sneak out" to come and see me. My step-mother has no more negative influance over the music, over him. I couldn't be happier. :0) Music is a part of who he is, just like me. Its something we share and it killed me to keep my mouth shut when the negativity and bitchiness started as soon as the music did, sometimes it started in anticipation of the music! With a new woman on his arm who is proud of the musician in him, I will once again have the honor of sharing the stage with my Dad this week end. It's going to be awesome!!!
So speaking of the step-mother, I ended up in Sarnia, just a couple blocks away from her house. I had to stop for gas (because I am assuming that when the "low fuel" message starts blinking and the car is dingdingdinging, I need to get gas asap LOL). So I stopped in to see Trudy, since I was so close. I guess she was still at work, though, no one answered the door when I knocked. I did wait a few minutes and knock again (in case she was in the shower) but no answer. I think I'll try again when/if I get back to Sarnia.
After grabbing another Timmies I thought a ride along the river would be nice. I could also take advantage of having a strong AT&T 3G signal and make a few phone calls. Talked to TeeJ for a few minutes, that was nice, I really miss him. Made a call or two to the people who are covering for me at work, but nothing major is going on and thankfully they are having a quiet week so far, :0). Took a few pictures, updated my facebook status, answered a couple text messages. Got one message from one of Dayle's brothers (on her Dad's side) and got to spend about an hour with him as I gave him a lift home. I haven't seen him since he was a little boy (9 or 10) about 24 years ago. He looks a lot like his Dad. :0) I wonder if he realizes that....
Anyways, after I got back to my home away from home and had something to eat, took a swim and spent a little while on Facetime with my kids, I got to spend a quiet evening just hanging out with my best friend. It was a great night.
So right now, its after midnight and while I'm waiting for TeeJ to facetime me I'm planning my day tomorrow. I think if its not raining I'll get up and go get the flowers for Nick's and Grandma & Grandpa's grave sites. See if I can find some pretty flowers at the nursery in Reeces Corners. Then I want to find a place to get some peameal bacon. Haven't had that in forever!!!! YUM!!!
Ok that's all from me for today, the letters on the page are starting to look like little ants walking by. Have a great night!!